And not just because my mother thinks I dress like a 70 year old. (Actually, mom, the 40s are just my favourite time period. It’s classic.)
I am terribly nostalgic. It’s been happening more and more since I turned 19. I mean, I knew nostalgia plagued the aged, but I did not expect such an early onset! Anyway, I cleaned my room today. I know, miracles of miracles, right? But whenever I do, I get in this mood. I really love having a clean room, but I have so much stuff. Stuff from my past, mainly. My childhood is splattered on the walls. Everything is painted in bright colours. There are stuffed animals everywhere. Photos from when I did ballet are on a shelf. There are cartoon animals on the walls! It’s like, a 13 year old designed it (which is, of course, what happened). Then, you have signs of my high school age, with my closet which is plastered in photos of celebrities. Ashton Kutcher gazes at me from several locations on the collage. I really should take it down. Next, you see me a bit more grown up, with make-up and jewelry all over. I have quite a few electronics floating around. Art. Notes to myself. Books outlining colleges and universities. Stuff from Katimavik.
Sitting in the middle of it all, and being able to see it clearly, without the distraction of clothes and papers scattered all around the floor, is a little overwhelming. I think about my emo moments in this room, when I thought about life, and maybe about how it might not be worth it, and now I know how much of an impact everything has on me. Even the most insignificant little thing is bigger than this whole world. This is the place where I daydream, where I cry when my heart is broken. It’s where I dance, and sing, and talk to friends on the phone, and write this blog, and read, and watch movies with hot tea and a blanket. I always felt at home in Katimavik, and I loved sharing a room, and yet, on August 22nd, when I got home, and came up here, tears came into my eyes. I acted cool about it, and shooed my parents away, so I could change. Instead, I sat on my bed and looked around, and saw myself as a teenager, all over. Then I took the button Anny had given me before we left the house in Quebec- “9 Somebodies Love Me,” and pinned it to my curtains, and- that’s it. I’ve been here ever since.
So, I start working at my dad’s company tomorrow, which is to say that I was too lazy to go find another job, and my parents have had enough of my freeloading! So, that will be interesting, but I may not be around as often as I am now! It’s kind of sad, because I’ve adapted to my carefree schedule nicely, but it’s time to start being an adult. And I really want to start school in September. It feels nice to have a goal again!



Haha, whenever I visit your blog something looks different. It’s a pleasant surprise.
I’m terribly nostalgic as well. I like looking back in the past because it makes me realize how different I am now.
Good luck with your new job tomorrow! You can still be a carefree adult, eh?
Awww. Nostalgia is often the worst. I get that feeling at lot too, and I’m not *that* old.
The best cure is to keep busy (which it sounds like you’ll be doing, what with your new job and all!) .. It works for me!
That pin is so cute – “9 somebodies love”. From all of what I’ve heard, it sounds like Katimavik is quite the amazing program. I saw an ad for it somewhere a week or two ago (on the bus, I think) and it reminded me of you.
All you need are a few wrinkles and some organs acting up…
Whenever I clean my room (thoroughly, that is – doesn’t happen very often) I inevitably go through all my old stuff. I love looking back on how things were then, compared to now. And I only truly appreciate all the good things after they’ve come and gone.
And just because I love reading what you say, I’ve tagged you ;D
Somehow I think you’ve got a long way to go until you’re old and falling apart! I detest keeping my room tidy but I love cleaning it. It’s so nice when you find something you thought you had lost.
Good luck with the job!
Hey Aisling, I wanted to let you know that you’ve been tagged
http://www.silencios.org/index.php/2007/11/19/seven-things-about-me/
Ahh, third in! Heh. You’ve been tagged by my skinny self, Aisling.
I think that reflecting on the past is integral, because not only does it show how far we’ve come in life, in however much time has passed, but it also shows that we all have a purpose in life. I know I get the same feeling whenever I clean my own room – there’s just something about rifling through all the old stuff and reminiscing that gives a rare sense of fulfilment …