I am completely, totally and utterly FALLING APART AT THE SEAMS. I cannot count how many times I’ve been sick these last few weeks, but it’s been a lot. Just looking at this last week, I was sick last Thursday until Tuesday with a cold that was made a million times worse from exhaustion. Then, on Tuesday my right ear started to feel a little bit weird. Yesterday, it was constantly painful, so I went to the clinic on campus.
I went around lunch time, and after a few minutes of sitting there, they turned off the lights, saying I could see a nurse, but that they were all going to go for lunch soon since the doctor was away and they rarely get a chance to go out. Uh, okayyyy but I am in pain, so?! The nurse looked at my ear for about 10 seconds and then told me to use mineral oil drops for 3 days and come back on Friday afternoon (which is actually two days, but who’s keeping track?).
After school yesterday, I went to my work to find this mineral oil stuff. I work in the department next to the pharmacy, so the pharmacists probably have a rough idea of who I am. I asked one of them where I could find this stuff, and they told me the next aisle on my left. I was confused for a moment, since that aisle is generally filled with condoms and Pepto-Bismol. I look, expecting some sort of small bottle that oils often come in. Failing at that, I look to the bottom shelf and find a giant bottle of mineral oil. I pick it up, and on the front of it is says, in large letters tasteless, odorless LAXATIVE. Suddenly, I am completely mortified. Ugh.
So, I’ve had anti-constipation oil dripping out of my ears since last night, which is pretty gross, and isn’t helping much. In fact, I nearly blacked out and I cried twice today, from the pain. Once while buying juice, I had to bend over and cry while waiting in line. Then, at lunch, I went to the washroom and as I was washing my hands I had to put my head down on the counter and cry, after my ear popped.
To just make myself that little extra bit annoying and pathetic, I am extremely worried about… oh, everything. I’m worried about family and friends and the fact that no matter how hard I try right now I fall short of what I would expect for myself. I should be doing better in school (not that I’ve had anything but an A- or higher apart from one quiz before Reading Week, the day my Dad was having a procedure done). I’ve missed a lot of work due to sickness, so I am poor, and I’m not sure if I will be able to keep my job if this keeps up. But I HAVE to, because I need to pay for stuff. The nightmares still continue and I feel extra attached to everyone around me, as if they’re all about to go away.
It’s probably becoming a recurring theme in this blog, and I’m sorry for being so whiney, but I just need things to stop for a little while.



YOU ARE NOT WHINY OR PATHETIC. You are in pain, and that, number one, takes even the mentally toughest person down a few pegs. Also, you do wonderfully in school,and you need to ease up on yourself just a little bit. I’m not saying quit school and go sell hemp necklaces on the beach, but CALM YOUR BUTT DOWN.
And as for worrying about everyone around you, I understand, because I do all the time as well. I think everyone is going to leave me, and die, and stuff, so I get it. But you don’t have to worry about me, at least.
Listen to Jenny, she’s smart. I am so sorry you are in so much pain, Ling. I really hope everything gets better soon. If 3rd semester is any more stressful as this one has been, I think we are all going to have nervous breakdowns. I know I am. Try to think about the summer, and filming crazy movies about Canadian geese! Also: BLACK SHEEP.
I know I don’t normally comment on your blog, but I really wanted to this time. I really hope things get less stressful and horrible.
Time mends all wounds, so they say. Hope you feel better soon though!
Pain is just about the most awful, debilitating thing there is. That is why I was at physiotherapy for the past month or so — even though all I had to contend with was pain, it was so bad it did not allow me to concentrate or work properly. So I know exactly how you feel Ling. I recommend seeing your pharmacist and talking about taking some strong painkillers. You can take a high dosage ibuprofen with paracetamol/low-dosage codeine. Hope you feel better soon chook
Oh, gosh, Ling.
You’ve been so stressed – adding all this pain just makes it worse! Anyway, no one can fault you for these blog entries. I don’t find them whiney, anyway. How could you not talk about your stress and pain?
Hope you start feeling better soon. <3
Hey, do not sweat it, you are not whiny or anything. You are only AWESOME.
I hope you get better soon. Super soon. If not, I will have to have a talk with God, and maybe rough him up a bit.